What Venus Retrograde Brings Into Our Lives
Have you ever felt like your love life suddenly turned into a rerun of an old soap opera or your bank account started calling the shots on your self-worth, this transit might be why. Venus, our cosmic queen of love, beauty, and pleasure, doesn’t exactly move backward, but when she appears to, we feel it. Hard.
This isn’t a time to panic or swear off romance forever. It’s a period of reflection, a cosmic timeout to reassess what we desire, what we value, and, most importantly, how we love (ourselves included). So let’s break down the themes that tend to show up when Venus hits reverse.
Love & Relationships: Who’s Texting You at 2 AM?
One of the biggest hallmarks of Venus retrograde is the sudden reappearance of past relationships, exes, old crushes, unresolved “situationships.” Sometimes it’s for closure, sometimes for a lesson, and occasionally… it’s just a test. The universe loves to check if we’ve actually learned or if we’re about to fall into the same old pattern.
For those in relationships, things might feel a little rocky. Issues that have been bubbling under the surface will demand attention. It’s not necessarily a breakup transit, but it will show you where things are imbalanced. The key? Pay attention to what’s being revealed instead of sweeping it under the rug.
Self-Worth & Confidence: The Mirror Doesn’t Lie.
If you’ve been basing your self-worth on how others perceive you, Venus retrograde will call that out real quick. This is the time to notice where you undervalue yourself, where you shrink to make others comfortable, or where you let insecurities dictate your choices.
Patterns of self-sabotage become clearer during this period. Are you keeping yourself small in relationships? Settling for less because you think it’s all you’ll get? Venus is here to remind you: you are the prize. But first, you have to believe it.
Beauty & Creativity: Step Away from the Bangs.
Look, I get it, sometimes when life feels messy, the instinct is to make a drastic change. But trust me, Venus retrograde is not the time for impulsive beauty transformations. That haircut, that bold new look, that cosmetic tweak? You might regret it once Venus goes direct.
Instead, focus on self-care that makes you feel good from the inside out. This is also a great time to revisit old creative projects whether it’s writing, painting, or anything artistic you put on the back burner. Inspiration is there; you just have to tap into it.
Finances & Values: What’s Worth Your Energy?
Venus also rules money, which means this transit is an invitation to reassess your financial habits. Are you spending on things that genuinely bring you joy, or just trying to fill a void? Now’s the time to rethink financial goals and align your spending with what truly matters to you.
Beyond money, Venus asks: Do you actually value the life you’re living? Are you honoring what’s important, or just going through the motions? It’s a moment to realign with your core values so that when Venus moves forward, you do too, but with more clarity.
The Glow-Up is Internal.
Venus retrograde isn’t here to ruin your love life, your wallet, or your self-esteem. It’s here to show you what needs attention so you can move forward with more confidence and authenticity. The real glow-up isn’t a new look or a new lover, it’s the deep, unshakable knowing of your worth.
So, take your time. Reflect, recalibrate, and resist the urge to text your ex. When Venus goes direct, you’ll be glad you did.
